The magic word that can either make or break a person where no other forces can. Love doesn't just happen overnight. It takes time and effort to complete the 'getting-to-know-you' process before advancing to the next level. Friendship just makes it easier. It is after all, an inescapable part of humankind.
In this modernized era, a university student has the freedom to befriend anyone without the surveillance eyes of one’s parents as well as give much thought to the gender of the said friend - something the olden day folks would have frowned upon. These days, it is a common phenomenon to see some friendship blossom into love. The transition between both the relationships can be seen as a 'two coin' situation.
Students being in love can sometimes work miracles! This can be seen when their partner's are of the supportive type, confidence-booster, the pillar of strength and so forth. These types of couple would ensure mutual progress in their studies and later on, success in their life. The negative aspect of love can be seen when studies are disrupted, mood swings occur on a regular basis, daydreams take place during classes, loss of focus on studies and so forth. This; coupled with the uncertainty of one’s love and breakups, can lead to sleepless nights and yes, their academic downfall.
It is difficult to point out for sure if falling in love; while leading the life of a university student, would lead to a positive or negative outcome. In a way, it depends on the couple as well as their outlook on things. At the end of the day, it may or may not hinder a student’s academic activities. They must; however, not forget the main purpose of being in a university – to improve themselves academic wise.
So, which side are you on? What do you think?
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